If we had the ability to attend our own funeral would you be able to look at who you were and feel you influenced someone, helped change someone, or caused some kind of reaction where the world has become even 1% better in someones life?
Do you live your life for yourself and ONLY yourself? Only acknowledging others when they can immediately benefit you? Are you selfish? Do you ALWAYS ask and never give?
Too many times we life our lives with the mentality that we won't do anything for anyone unless it imediately benefits ourselves. America was born and maintained on an individualistic mentality and I'm 100% sure that this will be our downfall. "It's a dog-eat-dog world," and "only the strong survive" are mottos that we teach out children growing up. What happened to helping your fellow man and supporting those around you so everyone excels?
As this decade rolls around to an end, I think we should all make resolutions to really sit back and evaluate what kind of person we have been in the past 10 years and make a conscious effort to improve ourselves in the next 10 years to come. Nobody is perfect and that isn't what I'm requesting, I really just want us to be able to look at who we USED to be and understand that as a people, we can be better people. Change starts within - as of recently we're been crying for CHANGE but we're still in the same rut that we've been in a year ago.
Are you proud of who you are? Is your family proud of you? Are your friends? 2010 is an opportunity for us to make a big difference, but it all starts internally. My New Decade Resolution is to take the time and really focus on myself and be a better person than I was in the last one. What's yours?
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I don't do new years resolutions, only because I create goals as needed. New Year doesn't make a new me, new challenges everyday help shape a better me.
ReplyDeleteWith everything you said, I'm glad you are willing to make the change to be better. Some people don't even acknowledge their faults or decide to take the time to work on themselves.
I can't wait for you to improve. The happier you are with your self, the happier you will make others.
Yea im not always good at keeping resolutions..to be honest the ones i make are so materialistic. But this yea i do want to make a promise to myself to continue on this road of transformation im on. I do believe people should realize others in the world but dont wait till another decade. Begin change whenever you feel it, take a break and come back to it if needed. But get it done it will only benefit you...Joe you have always been great but once you become completely conscious of who you are and want to become you will be phenomenal! !
ReplyDeletelove u baby
I'm a big fan at new years resolutions however I think people totally have the wrong idea about them. At the end of each year I look back at what I could fix that would have made my year better and then my resolution becomes those "fixes". I think its just a way of drawing my attention to things I "should" be trying to fix.
ReplyDeleteHowever I totally agree with your take on people being selfish. While there are some people out there that aren't totally motivated by self-interest, most folks are and its truly sad. However, like I said not everyone is like this so don't sweat it. Focus on the good in the world not the bad.